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Bondage for beginners

I think first of all but we have to do is ask ourselves the question: what is bondage?

Bondage stands for bondage and discipline, dominance and submission or sadism and masochism.  All these terminologies include the practice of bondage. Lots of people tend to have a negative view of sexual discipline. They also found upon the people who were involved in bondage.

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In the media, BDSM is portrayed as torturous, painful, disrespectful, nonconsensual, humiliating and damaging. The betrayal of BDSM in films such as Fifty Shades of Grey does not help the publics general perception of BDSM. What a shame!

Sex, porn and BDSM

The way sex is represented in many porn videos is nothing like sex in reality. Especially with a loving partner. Additionally, when responsible, kinky adults practice the art of BDSM. Couples can explore bondage and BDSM to fulfil fantasies. Trigger fears and growth with that process. Additionally, explore the power dynamics within that relationship. A release of control so the couple is the individual can feel relaxed and completely immersed themselves in pleasure and eroticism.

Bondage for beginners

If you or your partner have been considering an exploration into the world of BDSM. And, especially bondage. Of course, as part of your consensual lovemaking. This article may give you some deep insights and an introduction into the concepts to ground your play and exploration in the key principles of responsible BDSM. This is quite simply safe, sane and consensual.

BDSM has developed over the past several decades and to protect the safety and health of those who choose to explore this kinky side of sex. An understanding and importance of a few key concepts are critical to ensuring that your kinky sex play is safe, sane and consensual.

Power struggles

The concept of BDSM is based on power and surrender. A consensual couple will usually consist of both the submissive and the dominant partner. As they say in Spider-Man: with great power comes great responsibility. The role of the dominant partner is to create a safe space for the submissive. So much so that they can embrace and fully benefit from this BDSM experience.

Of course, the power of dominant and submissive partner can fluctuate. The dynamic power of the submissive and the dominant transcends the sexual space into a tangible relationship. Truly understand the importance of both of these roles one must experience being dominant or submissive at least once. Even if there is a preferred role. 

Always consensual

In the BDSM community, it is widely known that and Fusic and signed consent is required. This doesn’t only mean that consent is given. It means that it is given without any kind of coercion. No pressures, no peer pressure no threat of harm or violence, no emotional blackmail or any external pressures that may push the submissive or dominant partner to agree to a certain kind of kinky play. 

In addition to consent which is given by saying adults capable of fully understanding the possible dilemmas, risks and benefits. For example, an individual who is drunk or high on drugs cannot give safe and sane consent. Additionally, consent needs to be given without specified boundaries. This is often referred to as limits. The parties must agree on these limits before engaging in a BDSM session.

Be sober

It stands to reason that if you are intoxicated when approaching such a specific thing as BDSM. You should be sober! If you are not in control of your faculties and not focused on the task, things can and probably will go wrong. More importantly, things can get incredibly dangerous depending on the type of bondage you are embarking on with your partner.

Baby talk

Be prepared for what you’re going to speak about with your BDSM companion. Make sure that the words you choose are complimentary and will get your partner excited. Do not start a conversation by introducing negatives. This is one way to absolutely turn your partner off and cause tension between the both of you before you even begin. You will know words, are you should know which words your partner will find ugly, offensive or even both.

Get physical

Take things slowly, to begin with. If you are used to “vanilla” sex. Then, bondage may be quite a leap. You may decide to actually do the things that are being talked about. This could be as simple as having rough doggy style sex. At the same time, talking dirty. You may even want to incorporate slightly edgier aspects into your place. This could fall into the category of hair pulling, face slapping (by the way never strike anybody near the ear as this can seriously damage somebody’s eardrum) nibbling and of course sexed toys.

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Equipment

You don’t need expensive equipment to begin a BDSM session of bondage. You can find many household implements which will suffice. This could be in the form of a belt, stockings, shoelaces. However, it’s always nice to go the extra mile and invest in a little rope or if you like the jingle jangle of metal. Some chains.  If you haven’t tried this before make sure that they’re not too tight. Always communicate with your partner and find out how they are feeling. The whole point of bondage is to be uncomfortable and restrained. But not necessarily in pain. Be careful!

The great outdoors

Okay, so you enjoy bondage. Amazing! Have you thought about taking it outside of the bedroom? If you decide that you would like to play with each other in ways that are a little riskier you can take your newly found skill set of bondage and explore your living room, kitchen and if you are safe and are not breaking any laws: it’s outside in your garden. Just make sure that your neighbours don’t see it!

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